The “Byrne” family includes a mother, father and eight-year-old daughter. The Byrnes met when they were older and although they wanted a family, they were concerned that they would be unable to conceive. They were overjoyed when “Sarah” was born. Early in Sarah’s life her mother developed symptoms of a degenerative connective tissue disorder. The illness progressed in part because of its rarity and the needed specialized treatment was not covered by Medicaid. Mrs. Byrne suffers constantly from pain and is often confined to bed. Mr. Byrnes worked long hours so Sarah’s early childhood was spent as the caregiver for her mother.

Her teacher at her elementary school noticed how withdrawn and isolated Sarah was and referred her to the Early Intervention/Prevention Program at Family Counseling Services. It was observed that Sarah had taken on adult responsibilities as a way of coping with her mother’s illness. Developmentally, she acted as an adult and playing was a concept foreign to her. Her parents embraced the services offered and became very involved in Sarah’s treatment. Through individual counseling , she has made tremendous progress.

Today, Sarah is a bright, playful child. She has overcome previous academic difficulty. Twice since beginning counseling, she made the honor roll and was recently admitted to the school’s gifted program. Her social skills at school have improved. The Bryne family is an active participant at many of Family Counseling Services’ community events. At a recent community beautification project, Sarah helped plant a flower garden. She was so proud of her handiwork, that afterward, a piece of the garden near where they live was designated as “Sarah’s Garden.” Her love of animals is evident when she talks about her pet turtle.

Although still helping with her mother’s care, she is now enjoying a healthy childhood.